Dear my haters and lovers,
I am writting this letter after relizing that the passed 2 months has been nothing but a reflection on mostly dark feelings towards society ... indevediuals ... myself ... friends ... well everything .. so I decided to change few turns and give you my thoughts towards how would I pleased ... and what would make my blog turn into a happy .. bright colors ... in return do me a favour and do this for only one day ... I am in fact doing this everyday for the passed few years ... so try to be me for one day and email me the feedback .. deal ?
Start this day with a plan.
Think of what you would like to see and do.
Then think of someone who is dear to you.
Not any friend ...
Someone you have felt lately they have been down ..
Been sick ...
or even just lonely ....
Ask this person to join you, in your plan for the day.
Share your time with them, ask them for lunch.
Or even spend few hours with them online ...
This might be the highlight of their week.
Be happy by making others happy.
How about spending this day with no nagging .. no screaming ... no yelling
Just by smiling and makeing your self happy
Give your hard temper a vecation
Forget about who harmed you nor things are worring you ..
Lets stay calm and respectful to each others ...
Complement people...
Make them cheer up ...
Even as simple as on the way they look
Assume each person you meet is a good person and act likewise.
If you see someone do something bad, try to consider what they are dealing with in their own life, and try to help them stop without yelling, accusing, or otherwise negatively confronting him or her.
Make them do this day .. spread it around
you can get them to stop and then take steps yourself to undo the damage done.
Whenever you can, try to help someone else.
It could be at their work (or homework), at relationships and more.
If someone asks you something, never dismiss them but try to be as helpful as you can, even if you don't do what they asked.
You can suggest to another to do what they wanted or point out who can help them.
Help, even if you aren't asked.
It means alot to be a hand for someone than being asked for it ...
It is the thought that counts
You should look around to see if someone needs help and help them without prompting.
It can be a simple thing, to help someone with something that he seems to have difficulties in or something you think he needs or will need.
Make it a hobby to try every once in a while volunteer somewhere or do something really nice for other people.
Don't try to take credit when you're nice.
There is a lot of satisfaction in watching someone do something because you've helped him when he doesn't know he's been helped.
Your heart is very powerful: Here is how Good deed can be express in life:
Good thought--even you did not do anything, sending caring and compassion thoughts to others around is one kind of good deed.
Simple kindness-includes a smile, open door for someone, be considerate, be more patient to those who serve you.
give with no expectation for reward (no matter they are thankful or not) and
give with consideration of others.
If you were in their shoes, how would you prefer them to help you.
If you're thirsty this moment, would you happy when someon give you a bag of chips or a glass of water.
Be consider and be wise when offering helps.
But sometimes you don't always give the right help, that's okay.
as long you had a good intention, that's all it matter.
Some may not be thankful yet one day they will ...
And they would help others with no intention of return ...
And that is the message I am spreading today
Believe in the power of your actions to influence others.
When other people see you doing good deeds, they will be reminded to take more positive action themselves.
This is truly the Power of One to make positive change in the world.
Remember, Compassion and kindness spread.
"It is not how much you give, it is how much love you putting in when you giving"
"It is not how much you do, it is how much love you putting in when you doing"
"Not everyone can do great deed, but everyone can do small deed with great love"
And all you need to get passed that day is courage .. good heart and kindness
Wishing you good luck ...
Yours faithfully
The auther
Wednesday, January 30, 2008
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2 comments:
I thank the author for this lovely post but i think that us people will always have that small dark corner in our souls that would never allow us to be that good to ourselves or to anyone else, however, its always good to try and I hope to se more posts from you :)
Fe Aman Allah
I thank the author for this lovely post but i think that us people will always have that small dark corner in our souls that would never allow us to be that good to ourselves or to anyone else, however, its always good to try and I hope to se more posts from you :)
Fe Aman Allah
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